Fighting Parents: How to Cope when Facing Difficult Child Custody Cases
We’ve all heard troubling stories of parents fighting for custody and visitation rights with their children. It’s true, we don’t have a perfect system. In Texas, people tend to think that the law is stacked against fathers. Perhaps in certain situations, it might be difficult for fathers to gain custody. Recent trends in Texas suggest that more 50/50 custody cases are being resolved with fathers getting their child in split custody. It all depends on the case, the situations, the circumstances, past histories, etc. Whether you are a mother or father, being alienated from your child can be a very difficult road to navigate on your own, particularly with the complexities of state laws and child custody laws that vary from state to state.
It is an unfortunate fact of life that many marriages might end in a difficult split. These might often produce difficult child custody cases that have profound effects on all parties involved. Whatever the circumstances, justified or unjustified, the partnership often comes to an end and human emotion can seep into attempts to settle scores. Children are often thrown into a tumultuous argument between parents. The law will always try to look at what is in the best interest of the child but here are a few things you can keep in mind before engaging in a custody battle:
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Contact a Trusted Attorney
We have a system. It’s not perfect, but it’s what we have. As attorneys, our job is to learn that system and understand how best to navigate it. Having an experienced lawyer by your side is ensures that someone who understands the rollercoaster nature of divorce cases is there to keep you focused on what’s important.
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Focus on the Child
Many times parents will get carried away trying to get back at one another or solving unresolved emotional entanglements. This is not particularly productive in a case and the more the focus turns to the child, the more your attorney can focus on helping you making the best case and winning it.
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Be Patient and Brave
Navigating the legal court system is not easy for any type of case. And while child custody cases are common, they never cease to be complex and wrought with emotional turmoil. Maintaining patience throughout the process helps you keep your life together and continue forward for the sake of your kids and the case. Many people allow the stress of a divorce case to take over their lives and this can actually be detrimental in the short and long term.
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Good News For Custody Battles Today
In recent decades, there has been a cultural shift that is far more accepting of dual parenting and open to single fathers or awarding dad’s custody. Today, parenting roles are not as strictly defined as they were in past generations. Parents share equal responsibilities in the house and the financial protection, as many parents today have to work full-time or have very varying schedules. This means that courts have begun to see dual parenting in a far more positive light.
Team Up with a Trusted Attorney and Keep Your Life Intact
Difficult child custody cases have been known to take a toll on parents. They take an emotional, spiritual, and financial toll. They might involve revisiting painful memories or taking time away from the children as the case is being decided. The important thing here is that you have an experienced person fighting for you, your kids, and your future. Call Rios and Parada today.